What drew me in this week was the article “Should you stay
together for the kids?” I found it interesting because coming from parents who
are still together it makes me wonder how big of a difference staying together
if you’re fighting all the time or getting a divorce and staying civil with
each other will have on children. I find the research on the mental health of
children of parents who divorce very interesting. It bring up a lot of question
for me. Does it affect the children more or less that we as a society think it
does and is it really better to put the kids in an environment where the
parents are constantly fighting? According to the article anything short of
abuse and the parents should stay together. Though I think if my parents were
fighting all the time and them not being together could solve the problem then
they shouldn’t be together. But I feel my thought may be slightly skewed
because I grew up with my parents together.
What I can relate to really well this week is stereo typing.
In that when I was younger I was stereo typed as being a drunk punk. This due
to my piercings, tattoos, pink hair and, partying, a lot of people around me
put me in that stereo type and had very strong opinions on who I was, though I did
like to party I was not a drunk I held steady jobs. I feel that this can be related to this weeks
studies by the brief details they give in the book on it.
I know exactly how you are feeling because my parents are also still together and every since reading about all the negative effects divorce can have I wonder how different i would be,
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